Is the gender of a spren bonded to a surgebinder based on sexual preferences?
Not strictly. You’re more likely to bond a spren of the opposite gender (or a spren that identifies as the opposite gender since spren have no gender), just like you’re more likely, statistically, to be attracted to someone of the opposite gender. There is a correlation between the two but just because a male character has a male spren does not necessarily mean what some think it means.
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